Chances of Getting Back with Your Ex – 3 Important Clues

August 13, 2008 by Timothy Allen  
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Chances of Getting Back with Your Ex

3 Clues to Improve Your Chances of Getting Back with Your Ex

What are the chances of getting back with your ex? This is a question I have heard many times, so I put together a short series of clues that will help you determine how likely you will be able to get back an ex. Believe it or not your ex is giving you signs that, if read correctly, will help you know what to do in order to win him or her back. Cool, huh!

Quite often an ex partner will say one thing but do the exact opposite. If you look past what they are saying and study the behavioral clues they are giving off, you will come to a very different conclusion. That’s why it is so important to understand these clues. If you do, you will understand your ex much better and will make better decisions as you attempt to get back an ex.

So, just like Sherlock Holmes would do, let’s get past what is being said and pay close attention to the real EVIDENCE. I hope these clues will give you an advantage as you work to get your ex back. Let’s take a look.

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Chances of Getting Back with Your Ex: Clue #1

August 12, 2008 by Timothy Allen  
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Does Your Ex Show Any Kind of Emotion Toward You or Your Actions?

Did you know the opposite of love is not hate? The opposite of love is indifference…absolute and utter indifference. Let me show you why.

Say you went on a date this past weekend and your ex found out. Would your ex be upset, angry, miffed, or hurt? Or would your ex not give a second thought about what you did? It’s only if he or she couldn’t care less about what you did that you have extra work to do in getting an ex back.

In order to figure out why this is so, just think about someone you have been angry with for an extended period of time. I mean really angry for days, weeks, or maybe even months. I am willing to bet that the reason you have remained so angy is because you really care deeply for this person.

We usually only give that level of anger to someone who is important to us.

If someone cut you off in traffic, you will probably get upset for a few minutes. You soon get over it though. However, many family feuds have lasted FOR YEARS over a few harsh words that were spoken hastily.

This is especially sad because love and caring is still there. Often, just a simple effective apology would be all that is needed to rectify the relationship. The problem is most people don’t know how to effectively apologize.

Hopefully, if there is still caring in your relationship with your ex, you will take the time to effectively learn how to apologize and get back an ex.

Do you know how to effectively apologize? Learn about the Clean Slate Method for truly effective apologies.

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Chances of Getting Back with Your Ex: Clue #2

August 11, 2008 by Timothy Allen  
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What Does Let's Just Be Friends Really Mean?

You must not confuse keeping in touch with the famous ‘let’s be friends’ line. So often someone who hears let’s be friends begins to panic. In reality, this statement is very neutral. The real clue you must look for is how much contact your ex has with you after the breakup.

If your ex says let’s be friends and then has no contact with you whatsoever, you have some work ahead of you if you intend to get back an ex.

On the other hand, if your ex says let’s be friends and then follows that with regular phone calls, text messages, IM, or surprise visits that means something totally different.

[Important Note: If you have kids, pets, or common property then any contact regarding those issues should not be considered keeping in touch. If, however, conversation regularly veers off into other topics this should be viewed as keeping in touch.]

There are typically two reasons for contact. The first reason is very bright and happy. Your ex truly fears losing your friendship and still sees potential for the relationship. This scenario is usually more rare.

The second reason is not as happy and bright, but there still is a silver lining to it. This reason is that they want to keep you close as a backup plan.

1. Their current relationship (sometimes secret) doesn’t work out.

2. Nothing better ever comes along as anticipated.

While finding yourself in either one of these situations seems less than appealing, you must remember the bright spot. The fact that your ex is keeping you close is because you are still their #1 romantic interest. They may not want to feel this way or ever admit it.

However, as long as they keep you close and are unsure of their future without you, they still see you as #1. This is extremely favorable for you as you attempt to get an ex back. Here’s a proven system that will help you Get An Ex Back.

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Chance of Getting Back with Your Ex: Clue #3

August 10, 2008 by Timothy Allen  
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Chances of Getting Back with Your Ex

Is Your Ex on the Fence?

If your ex is at the weebly wobbly stage then you can easily win an ex back. What do I mean? Well, the simple metaphor of someone walking on a fence perfectly illustrates how people make decisions. Based on what stage your ex is at will largely determine how easily you will be able to win them back.

Here are the 3 stages that all people go through:

1. They are not on the fence and are perfectly happy and not willing to get on the fence.

2. They are on the fence and feeling quite comfortable. They see all the options, but don’t have a particular preference on what would be best.

3. They are on the fence and wobbling. This is the most common stage right BEFORE and AFTER a decision. The larger the decision, the higher the fence will seem to them and the more unstable they will be.

Let me give you a quick example of how this works.

Think about making a large purchase such as a car.

For years you have been content with your car. The last thing in the world you would ever want to do is go through the stressful process of buying a car. (Here you are off the fence and stable)

One day you are out driving and you begin to notice a clicking noise. This causes you to think about a new car, but you quickly dismiss the idea and figure that the noise really isn’t that bad. (Here you are on the fence and stable)

The next day you are talking with your friend who mentions a large repair bill he just had. After hearing this, you realized that you better think more about your options.

Now you are wobbling….

You think, “a new car means that you need $2000 down and $500 a month in payments. It also means that your insurance is sure to go up.”

On the other hand, “maybe the repairs are worth it…after all, old faithful must have a few years left.”

Now you don’t know what to do and you are wobbling. You realize that a big decision is imminent. (Here you are at the weebly wobbly stage)

When you are at the weebly wobbly stage, you are the most uncertain about your decision-making process and are more likely to be influenced.

WARNING! I must warn you that you are most likely to win an ex back at this stage…but you must be very careful. While your ex may be easily influenced to come back, he or she may also be very emotional at this point. You must have an action plan like the one laid out in The Magic of Making Up, to properly handle this situation.

So where is your ex at? If they are at the weebly wobbly stage, you have an excellent chance of winning an ex back. However, if they are not, you may be able to gently coax them toward this stage. Does all that make sense? Hopefully, you now have a better understanding of how to read your ex and some of the clues you need to know to determine what your ex may be thinking about you and the possibility of your future together.

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