If you have recently gone through a separation with your husband or boyfriend, it is likely that you may be trying to understand men and what is going through their mind. You may be wondering what caused your breakup and how you can repair it. I know there are a lot of questions, so let me help you out.
I want to give you a few tips to help ease your mind, and I want to let you in on a little known secret about men. If you understand how to train your man, he will go to the end of the earth for you.
First, let me briefly touch on what you should do if you have just gone through a breakup.
Relax – It won’t do you any good to panic and then say or do something you may regret later. Your actions will play a role in your chances to get back husband or get back boyfriend.
Slow Down – Put some time and distance between the two of you. This is probably the opposite of how you feel, but this will allow you to clear your mind a develop a plan to get him back.
Of course this is just the beginning of what you will need to know as you go through this trying time. If you would like more information please visit my post on How to Get an Ex Back.
Now on to my third point for this post and the main idea that I will share with you here.
Train Him – This will not happen immediately, but it will play a role in your efforts to reestablish your relationship and build your communication with him in the future.
The best way that I know how to explain this point here is through this video. In this short 7-minute video, T.W. Jackson, author of The Magic of Making Up, answers the question of how to train your man to do more of what you would like him to do.
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Quick Summary of T.W.’s Video
So often it seems like you just can’t get your husband or boyfriend to respond how you would like them to respond. This is because they have been trained to do the wrong things. However, with proper training and reinforcement, you can teach our husband or boyfriend to react how you want them to react.
So how exactly do you train him?
A man’s number one secret desire is to be admired. Therefore, if you reinforce the positive things that he does with admiration for him and his actions, he will slowly begin to do more of the things that you want him to do.
Here’s the example: If your ask your husband or boyfriend to wash the car after the game and he says that he will do it, remember to thank him for doing this when he follows through on his commitment. Also, add in a something like, not only does it look great but I knew you would get this done because you are a man of your word. This simple bit of admiration will go a loooonng way.
The more you continue to do this, the more he will want to do the things you want him to do. Just try it and see.
